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Makes for a cool picture, though.
This has kind of been high school nostalgia week, anyway, what with celebrating Kev's birthday and some odd 30 years of knowing each other. I know it's old news to lots of people, but I think my cohort is just now realizing that we're hitting our middle years. We don't feel old, but it's hard to deny those mid-40s numbers.
Interestingly, I don't see a lot of us racing out to buy sports cars or cougar on nubile young people. I like to think it's because we are so much wiser than our parents.
Also, those nubile young people? They don't know Mikhail Barishnykov was a ballet dancer before he was on Sex and the City. And they don't understand when you try to explain that he claimed political asylum. I'm sorry: you can't base even meaningless sex on that.
Anyway, I mentioned yesterday that my high school years were largely spent babysitting. This was partly on my mind due to teen nostalgia, but also because of a blog post a friend put up last week about leaving her kid with a babysitter for the first time. She asked people how much they checked in, etc.
And it reminded me of this one babysitting disaster.
As, I mentioned yesterday, I babysat A LOT. I had a great reputation and new people often called me who'd been referred by other people. Well, this mom called me. She lived in the next subdivision over, had *just* moved in and had been invited to a neighborhood party. I'd been recommended by a neighbor and could I sit their three kids?
Easy peasy job. Older boy, younger girl and a toddler. Boxes everywhere. But mom was organized. She had the list of emergency numbers, including the party. (For you nubile young people, this was before cell phones. Yes, indeed. Sit wide-eyed at my knee and listen.) She gave me a list of allergies and rules and bed times. The kids were charming. Everything seemed just fine.
All went smoothly. We ate some dinner. We played games. Bedtime went with stories and without protest.
Until the middle girl started puking.
Lots of puking. And diarrhea.
She was sick all over her bed, so we had to clean her up, change her sheets and put on fresh jammies. Then the toddler got sick. Big bro was helping me and I'd had sick kids before, but this wasn't looking good.
Now, I pretty much never called parents. I figured they'd were out for a fun evening and, really, very little ever occurred that couldn't wait for them to deal with. I'd called a couple of times to ask questions or verify something, but never had I called parents to come home.
But I couldn't find more fresh sheets, so I called the parents.
At the party.
A very LOUD party.
As with most parties, the person nearest the phone was, of course, not the person who lives in the house. But the guy was genial (happy drunk) and I explained that I was babysitting, my kids were sick and the parents should probably come home.
He says, okay, who are they?
I realized I had absolutely NO IDEA.
I'm sure when she called me, she'd said "This is Mrs. Such and So" or "Judy Such and So," but it hadn't stuck in my head. I looked around on the counters. They hadn't started getting mail yet, so there were no clues. I couldn't find a name anywhere.
I explain this to genial drunk guy, tell him the house address, and he offers to go around the party asking people. He'll call me back. Um, no, because the phone number to the house isn't on the phone. I don't know what it is, either.
At this point, I felt like a complete bimbo. Not my usual competent self.
So, he sets the phone down and heads off. I listen to the party banter while my three miserable charges huddle in blankets on the couch. Eventually someone, probably wondering why the phone is off the hook, hangs it up.
By then it was getting late, so I hoped the parents would be home soon, anyway.
Then - Hallelujah! - the front door lock clicks and in they come!
"Oh!" I exclaim, "I'm so glad you got the message."
They look puzzled. "What message? Our neighbor's sitter called and said the kids were sick, so we decided we'd just come home, too."
No, I say, that was me. I wonder if I got the address wrong, too. And I confess that I didn't remember what their names were.
They were so nice to me and, yes, I babysat for them many times after that. I also asked new families to write down names for me and put them by the phone, just in case.
It turns out, bizarrely enough, that the neighbors' kids *were* sick also and that sitter had called, just around the same time I did. It was a mini-flu epidemic and a bunch of kids got sick. My poor little girl ended up in the hospital for a few days, to replenish her fluids.
Elizabeth's question reminded me of this story and I wanted to tell it to her. But, 1) it's too long for comments and 2) I didn't want to freak her out.
Of course, the advent of cell phones and texting has really changed this.
As long as the genial drunken parents pull their phone out of their pockets once in a while, just in case.
I love the pics from high school. I don't wax poetic about that time and wish I could go back but now that twenty some odd years has passed I do go back and remember those times fondly. I agree this is a great pic. Even by accident.
ReplyDeleteUnlike you I never did the babysitting thing except for the siblings for which I was never paid. But way to go with keeping your head.
I can't speak for the rest of the cohort, of course, but I, for one, feel old. Healthy, still (* knock on simulated wood product *), but old nonetheless.
ReplyDeleteI never actually did the babysitting gig in an official capacity. I only took care of family kids (thank God) and knew where everything was. Okay, so I was unpaid labor. One summer, I didn't even go home. I lived at my sister's house taking care of her 2 sons while she and BIL worked. I think she bought me a shirt in thanks. Ah, well. Live and learn.
ReplyDeleteGirl, is that all you got?! That's a great story, but I was a babysitter for YEARS. Also a nanny and an au pair in Europe. You can't scare me. I have my own stories. ;)
ReplyDeleteLike the time I accidentally taught my very young charge how to say, "penis. (Damn babies mimic everything!)
Or the first time the parents in Belgium left me with their kids, and the 3 year old screamed so loud for so long that the neighbors called the police. I didn't speak Flemish, so I almost got hauled in. The parents came home just in time.
Then there was the time the 5 yo wet the bed and was hysterical. I could not calm him. Nor could I find clean sheets or clean pajamas/clothes to put him in. Sure, I judged that mom. LOL Now that I am one, I'd probably give her a break.
Thanks Kelly - I don't remember being very into photography then, but I can see I had a good eye even then.
ReplyDeleteOh, Kev - you are so not old.
A shirt, Danica? Really??? That girl OWES you!
Elizabeth - those are great stories!