Everyone Is Named Nancy

My mom lives in Tucson half the year now. Snowbirds. As cliche as retirees from New York and New Jersey heading to Florida, she's one of those Colorado dwellers who heads to Arizona for the winter. And part of the fall. And pretty much all of the spring. In fact, it's really a 65/35 proposition at this point. They're reliably informed by their Tucson neighbors that they'll gradually be spending so much more time in the desert home that they'll go full-time and sell the mountain one.

This is the third winter she and her new husband have spent down there. "New" being a relative term, since they married two years ago this May. They've had to consciously build friendships in Tucson, since their lifelong social circles were in Denver. So they invite neighbors for dinner, sign up for charities and various events -- sifting through the people they meet looking for compatible couples and potential friends.

Through a strange coincidence, several of the gals in the couples they like most are named Nancy. There's Jack & Nancy, Bill & Nancy, Jim & Nancy, John & Nancy. It's so pervasive that, if they can't remember the name of the distaff side of one of couples -- which can happen, lots of new people, on top of the lifetime of names already filed away in their "friends" memory banks -- they simply refer to her as "Nancy." And they're usually right.

They've never mentioned if there's a standard man's name they use. But it makes me wonder if, someday, when David and I are living in some senescent community, will we call all the women Jennifer?